Thursday, November 1, 2012

One of my sons lost his job, couldn't pay rent, so came home here ...

He is saying he wants fifteen dollars for train to get to an interview. I gave him that yesterday, but he wants it again. He said he is also selling some computer equipment he has. I say to let the buyers come to him. I can't give any more money. He doesn't do drugs or alcohol, but he has a history of working temp jobs and when they come to an end, he comes back here to me. Sometimes he is back for months. My other kids are all four self-sufficient but he has a history of working and either quitting or just letting the job run out and it never becomes a permanent job. He also complains all the time about being here. I don't want to give any more money, don't have it, but how can one get a job if he doesn't have train money to go to interviews? He doesn't share much, has no friends, dislikes his siblings and hasn't seen them in years, doesn't come to family events. I am thinking how I should not have let him come back here. I am the ultimate enabler. What do I do?

- Asked by rosekohn, A Married Girl, Female, 56-65, Philadelphia, Retired

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